Sunday, November 29, 2009
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Contrast that with now. As I was brainstorming what to write about in the blog I asked Rach what some of the highlights of the week were. After some thought she replied, "We spilled Cheerios." It's true. We have moved on to a new phase in our lives dominated by diapers and feeding schedules-short walks and trips to the zoo. Our energy is spent in short two-hour bursts because that is when the babies have to eat again. A trip to Walmart is a major accomplishment. We still do what we can to stay active- those who know us can certainly attest to that. But it is definitely different.
As I go back and read this post, I realize that it may appear to some that our previous lifestyle was more desirable. Those people probably don't have children. You see, I couldn't imagine a life without my Evelyn, my Jackson, and my Adalie. I actually look forward to coming home from school and reading books with Evelyn. Pointing things out to her (and the babies) about the world has increased my own awareness of what an amazing place we really live in. And deep down, I really like dancing wildly around my house singing silly songs (it makes me feel like a kid), so it's nice that my children give me an excuse to do this and still maintain my manhood. If going back meant losing this, then I wouldn't even have to think about it for a second.
So overall I'd have to say that things are definitely different, and also that they are better than ever. I won't lie and say that I don't miss the spontaneity and the activity level of our pre-children days. But we'll have all of that back in a few years when they grow up a little. For now, I am just trying to treasure every second I have with these little ones.
Woah- I just got all philosophical and stuff. Don't worry, there won't be many more blog posts like this one, but you've got to understand that we keep these posts as a family history and I wanted to have these feelings recorded somewhere. That said, here are a couple of pictures of our week:
Here are the spilled Cheerios that I mentioned. We gave Evelyn a broom to help clean up. This ended up being a little counter productive. She's learning.
We went to the Children's Museum. I think we have a future doctor in the family- Evelyn wouldn't put down that darn stethoscope!
Also, Rachel went and saw the midnight premiere of New Moon (some vampire movie) with a bunch of friends. That night she only got two hours of sleep. I don't know how she does it.
Look- we're going crazy with the video. Three clips in three weeks. That's good for us. This is sort of a conglomeration of things that we did this week. Nothing too exciting.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Our babies are doing great! They are starting to follow a more predictable routine now, which makes it easier for us to get out and do things. Also, they are becoming more smiley. Today I was holding Adalie at church and she looked right at me with her big blue eyes and gave me the biggest "I love you" smile that I have ever seen on her. I about lost it. I sat there and looked at my family- all five of us- and thought to myself "Gee whiz, I think that I am just about the luckiest guy in the world".
The other day, Adalie was screaming uncontrollably (she does this on a regular basis). We were trying everything we could to console her, but it was all to no avail. Finally, Rachel came over with Jackson, who reached out his hand and held on to her, sort of like he was saying "It's okay, I'm here now." When he did this, Adalie immediately stopped crying and just stared at her brother. Rachel and I were both amazed. It might have been coincidence, but I prefer to think that these two babies have a special bond that comes with being twins.
And Evelyn is as cute as ever…Maybe even cuter if that is possible. Her new favorite things are stars and airplanes. Several nights I have taken her on night-walks. We go to a big open area that is near our house and lie on the grass (she puts her head on my shoulder) and point to all of the stars. She is also very good at pointing out airplanes, the moon, and clouds if they are present. She likes this so much that we went and got those glow-in-the-dark stars for her bedroom. Bed time has never been easier.
This picture is not an illusion- we found this MASSIVE pile of leaves on our Sunday evening walk. I threw Evelyn in and she totally dissapeared! How fun. Even Rachel and I joined in on the action on this one.
Here are some pictures of Adalie. She really is a very cute girl, but she insisted on crossing her eyes while we were taking these.
We got such a large positive response to our short little video last week that we thought we'd post one more. Rachel took this right after we got home from a Sunday evening walk. We have come to accept that virtually every outing ends in tears- but that is better than not having outings at all which is the only other alternative. Evelyn is just good through it all.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Actually, they have been better in a lot of ways. They aren't really sick any more, and we are even able to have a few hours each day when we don't have someone in the house crying. They are also starting to give us smiles, which is fun and very rewarding. They both have thrush still, but even that is getting more manageable.
Evelyn continues to crack us up at every turn. The other day she put a blanket over her head and ran wildly about the room until she hit a wall or a piece of furniture which knocked her over. I thought she would start crying, but instead she threw the blanket off and had this big Sesame Street grin on her face. Then she stood up and did it again. Oh, the simple joys of being a toddler.
On Saturday we went to the dinosaur museum. We'd been there once before, but wanted to go back. This is a cool place. Rachel took Evelyn for most of the time while I held both babies in my arms and walked around. It's fun to do this, in a sort of self-aggrandizing sort of way, because I always get a lot of smiles and compliments on what a great guy I am for taking the babies and being a good dad and all. On the other hand, it sort of makes me wonder if expectations for guys aren't just set entirely too low in the public mind, thus turning what should be normal into something exceptional.
Anyway, that is about it for this week. I am about to go and get Evelyn out of bed and dress her for church. Rachel is feeding the babies and says hello to everyone. We will post pictures this afternoon.
The Dino Museum
Some of the medicine we give them for thrush turns their mouths purple. I think it sort of gives them that gothic appearance. Hopefully this trend doesn't come back to haunt us when they are teenagers.
And finally, here is a video. It's not super exciting- just a view into our Sunday morning.