Compared with last week, this one was downright boring. We'll take it.

Just to follow-up with the car accident (see the last post, if you haven't already), we are still all doing well. It was kind of wild going to the tow lot to get our stuff. The car was even more mangled than I had originally thought, and it's crazy that we all came out of things in one piece. The topper is broken beyond repair, and it was kind of sad driving away from it with all the stickers from our adventures and everything.

We are now in the annoying process of dealing with insurances and looking for yet another new vehicle. I think it'll be months before we finally put this behind us once and for all. It's been super nice of Marissa and Wesley to lend us a car for me to get to work each day, which has made all of this so much more manageable. Because of that, this last week feels almost like life as usual. Also, I have to thank the many, many people from all circles of our lives who have reached out to us in this last week. It's good to know we have friends, and we are very grateful for the support that's around us.

Little sum-up: I had a dental conference I went to on Friday. Evelyn and Adalie had a band thing on Saturday. Jack and Lindsey and their friends have been really into Nerf lately. Maren officially paid off her DC/NYC trip that she'll be going in in June. Rachel is back at work, and has also gotten really into hydroponic strawberries, which is random. The three oldest kids had their last ski-club day at Schweitzer and brought stuff to do s'mores with their friends and overall had a good time there. The weather lately has allowed Rach and me to go on some nice walks by the river and I was able to get out on my skateboard a few times.

Here are some photos. Have a good week!

Solo and Ensemble weekend. This is a regional thing, with several schools coming together. The pieces are judged and it has an element of competition to it, which makes it sort of fun. Addy (2nd one in) was part of a quartet.

Here's Evelyn's group. They actually won first place in percussion and are headed to state-level competition this spring!

We have this constant eerie pinkish glow coming from the office windows in the backyard. This thing looks like is belongs in a space ship. These are Rachel's strawberries.

Just another photo of the car. This was at the tow lot where we gathered out belongings. Modern technology is pretty neat.

Saying goodbye. These cars- and that topper- see our family through a lot of good times and almost becomes parts of the family themselves.

Here's a few photos that Ev took:

Schweitzer has these firepits available. Ev and Addy brought s'more stuff to have while on the mountain with friends.

Ev's ski group. Addy has a separate group she hangs out with, and Jack had a different one altogether. Ev is the best at taking photos though, so she gets featured more.

This is kind of a sad picture. Ev is on the end there, with her boyfriend, Josh and a bunch of other friends. This is a band called Solace that started around 3 years ago and had a little bit of regional success. It's been a biggish part of Evelyn's life. Last weekend was their last show together. Kids grow up. Life changes. Ev says it was a fun night, but that it was also bittersweet.

The gang. We love these kids like they are our own. Ev is in the front middle.

Another friend group photo. I like that the Durango is in there. It's been a reliable car for us.

Here's an Addy picture. She has been really into embroidery lately, and is putting cool little designs all over her clothes. It's kind of cool.

 This week did NOT go according to plan.

This is all of us at a Mexican restaurant on Saturday afternoon. This was likely the most poignant meal we have ever eaten together.

*****

Big Sky is one of our favorites. It seems like we haven't done as many travel ski trips this year, and we were all excited to get out of town for a change in scenery. The drive out of town was pleasant in our new car. It's funny how you just get used to all the little quirks and imperfections of the old one, and how it takes something new to really appreciate what a good car can feel like.

We woke up in Bozeman to a bluebird day, ate a quick breakfast at the hotel, and loaded the car for what had every indication of being a joyful day. Jackson, with his recently acquired driver's permit, took the wheel, and I took the seat next to him to offer directions. We were off!

A few minutes later...

The details are that we had a near head-on collision at 45mph with a big truck. It was a Ram 3500, carrying two large snowmobiles. Even with our forward momentum, the weight difference between the two vehicles pushed our car backwards about 60 feet. After several seconds of chaos and a van filled with screams I looked over at Jack. His face was bloody, but he was there, looking back at me, seeming to be all in one piece. And then, one of the scariest moments...maybe THE scariest moment...of my entire life. I looked behind me, not knowing what I would see.

Side Note: Lindsey took the picture of Jackson in the driver's seat. This was literally seconds after the car stopped moving. Apparently, we have a young photojournalist in the making.

"Everyone check yourselves and say your name if you think you're okay."

"I think I'm good. Um...Addy"..."Lindsey"...Evelyn"....."Rachel"..."Maren"..."Jack"..."Logan"

*****

I got out of the car. And it's strange even to me, but I just took for granted that I was okay. Of course I was okay. That was never even a question. Even though the main area of impact was right in front of me. Even though I had a dashboard sitting in my lap and a truck had literally gone through our windshield- but yeah- no worries. I never even considered...and still find it hard to consider...that maybe something could have happened to me. Out of everything, this is the emotional component that I struggle the most to understand as I write this. It makes me want to look at my own brain.

What I saw when I got out was like a war scene. Debris was everywhere. From the outside, our van was so crunched up that it seemed improbable that there could be seven people inside. Every window was gone. Maren's headphones that she had been wearing seconds before were laying on the road in a mangled heap, several yards away. Our topper had torn the rack off of our car, and ski gear was everywhere; the yard-sale to beat all yard-sales. It was clear that the damage was massive. 

And then I saw the truck. Part of it was to my left, with a man lying on the road next to it. The entire front end of the truck was on the other side of the road. I ran to the man on the road and thankfully (THANKFULLY!!!!) he was lucid and, all things considered, in a pretty chill mood. His shoulder was hurting, but nothing else.

And then...mass chaos of people. Fire trucks. Ambulances. Police cars. Onlookers. They had to cut our car into pieces to get everyone out. They took us to the hospital. I was the only one involved who was not admitted as a patient.

Because I am a nerd, and because I had a lot of time to kill at the hospital, I looked up some crash report statistics. It turns out that there is quite a bit of peer-reviewed crash data that is available (NHTSA, IIHS, and the Abbreviated Injury Scale). With the vehicles involved, trajectories, speed, etc...it turns out that a crash like ours has roughly a 35% chance of ending in fatality. Furthermore, there is a 90% chance that there would be a debilitating/life changing injury.

Four hours later, we were all discharged, with instructions to "take it easy for a few days." We basically walked away from it. The driver of the truck will be in a sling for 6 weeks, but otherwise, he's going to be okay.

Both cars, needless to say, are completely totaled. Like, we can't even find all the parts. It took four hours for them to re-open the intersection. We have some logistics to figure out. It's inconvenient. But right now, "inconvenient" seems like a really good place to be.

*****

In other news, we went and saw the play "Be More Chill." This is one that I'm going to think about for a while, and Stage Left always does such a good job. Bravo.

Have a good week!

Evelyn turned 18. She is officially an adult. She can get a face tattoo without my consent, and she can be prosecuted as an adult for robbing a 7-Eleven. Once she graduates from high-school, I can charge her rent and make her buy her own food. Also, she can be on a jury. And vote. Because in North Idaho, it's super important to vote because every vote counts or something.

So, yeah. Lucky her. 

All cynicism and joking aside, I love the person she is turning out to be, and feel lucky to be her dad. Evelyn, in my opinion, is fully ready to take on these adult responsibilities, and I am excited to watch her come into her own. She seems to have a strong sense of self, has good goals and plans for the future, and a strong network of friends and family to fall back on. I'm so freaking excited to see where life takes her. I think it's gonna be good.

Outside of that, it was a pretty normal week. For Rachel, this was a gardening class with Marissa on Monday, bunko night on Wednesday, and a night out with her friends at a karaoke bar on Friday. A lot of reading for me, a book club thing, and playing bass at church. Ev and Addy went down to Moscow over the weekend with the school band for the Jazz Fest. Good week. Here's some photos.

Ev had a bunch of friends over to just hang out and watch a movie. On the night before, I told Rach that I was going to bed. It was then that she decided "I think I want to make Evelyn a cake. It's kind of last minute, but I might not get another chance."

The cake. Pretty good for "last minute."

Speaking of cakes, this is on the bus for ski club. Someone randomly produced a cake on the way up to the resort and they all celebrated together.

The four of us went up for a day and got some good turns in.

Addy's best friend (Faith) was in a leading role for "Seussical the Musical." She did well, and the show was more fun than I was expecting. Fun night.

On Monday when the kids were at school, Rach and I got out to a climbing gym. I think it has been over a year since I went to a gym- which is crazy to think about. Meanwhile, Rach has been getting sessions in weekly. Between my broken wrist for much of last year, and other competing interests, it just hasn't happened for me. I'm happy to say that I can still climb as hard as the setters can set- so that's cool.

Have a good week!

It feels like it has been a really busy week. I don't know if that's just me, or if everyone is feeling it. And not busy in a bad way either. Just...a lot of moving parts. 

Just to recap- the week started off with a super bowl party (that was in the last post), Lindsey had two days of Irish dancing in preparation for an upcoming competition, Addy and Evelyn had two days of a Jazz festival on the NIC campus, and two nights of basketball games (pep band) on both Friday and Saturday, Jackson had his last day of driver's training and is now a terror on the road, Rachel and I had church things on three different days, my car was in for minor repairs so we were constantly swapping with each other to keep things moving, Rach drove down to Ellensburg for a job, I have put inordinate amounts of time in on a presentation that I am giving next week, Maren had a birthday party, we all went up as a family to watch SkiJor in Wallace, and we skied three days on some of the best snow we've had all year. Um...what else? Oh yeah- our van also died and we bought a new car.

So, yeah. I guess it was a pretty full week.

Here are some photos:

Let's start with this one because it really was a joy filled night. Valentine's day. Lightly falling snow. Night skiing. I mean, could you ask for anything better?

Yes. It does get better. Because at the same time, there was a saxophone player up in the lodge playing sultry tunes while we watched the snow gently fall outside the big picture windows. Rach and I escaped for an hour for a little Valentine's day lodge date and the whole evening was just very, very lovely.

This one and the next one are pictures that Ev captured to show the vibe of the night. So good!

This is from Maren's birthday party (She's 14, btw). They went to a tea place and were treated to a very fancy lunch. After that, they went home and had a sleepover.

This was actually a very fun afternoon- even more than I thought it would be. Wallace holds the "Extreme SkiJor" every year, but we have always been out of town so have never actually seen it. Even though there was a slight drizzle, the atmosphere was super festive as pro skiers got towed by tracked ATVs into a terrain park that was build right on the main street of the town. Wallace is cool that way.

This is our new car. It's another Sienna- Surprise! Ok- not really a surprise. This is our 4th Sienna, and we personally put about 200,000 miles on each and every one of them. It seems like we are always getting new cars, but then we look at what we put them through and it kinda makes sense.

This is Maren eating a potato that just happened to be in the bag of apples that we brought skiing with us. Very random. (She microwaved it and bought some chili to put on it. Not a bad idea...We'll have to keep this in mind for future ski lunches). Besides the Valentine's day night ski, we got out a couple of times to enjoy the best snow that has fallen all year.

This. Is. Terrifying.

Have a good week!

This week is going to be one of those "glimpse-into-normal-life" sort of posts. I think I'll use photos and captions to tell little stories. That seems easiest. This is just us being us these last couple of weeks.

We'll start with some culinary creations. This first one is Addy and her friend, Faith, making crepes in French class.

Rach and Marissa making raspberry jelly.

Wait...my bad. Rachel just corrected me and told me it was "jam," which is way different. Sorry.

And a lady's ski day with friends, hanging out in the trees with some "Charcuter-ski."

Also- we should have pictures here of the treats that people made for the Super Bowl- Elf cookies with jerseys and chocolate Oreo truffles. 

Speaking of the Super Bowl- Go Seahawks! The five of us went to a party with about twenty other people and it was so much fun. Thanks, as always, to Amanda and Byron for hosting :)

Also, I had to take this photo of the ceiling at church on Sunday. If I took one of the congregation you'd also see a bunch of green and blue. It's almost like there are some Seattle fans around here!

Here's a few ski photos for the week. The first couple are from the high school ski club. You can tell by the t-shirts what kind of winter we're having around here. This is supposed to be peak season, and it seriously feels like May. One local resort has even started to close mid-week. This photo is Ev (front) with her group.

And here's Addy and Jace

And Addy and me. The reason for the face I'm making is that Maren and Lindsey were supposed to be in there with us, but we got all the way up there and Maren had neglected to put her skis in the car, and Lindsey had forgotten her pass. So...it was just us. For a while. Maren went on an 8 mile walk on a nearby trail, and L got a "pass of shame" from the ticket office (It's a pass she wears on her coat that says, in big bold letters, "I FORGOT MY PASS.")

Random photo of Jack, as he takes a random photo of me. He found out he can borrow a camera from his school, and he's been experimenting with photography.

We all went to see the Broadway tour of Lion King. It was...Lion King. Just like the cartoon. I'll be honest that this is one of my beefs with Disney: Every version is pretty much exactly the same. The cartoon. The live action. The ice skating one. The stage adaptation. All the same lines and punchlines. The same depth- or lack thereof. The same motifs. The same heroes and villains with weak motivations and character arcs. Many of the stories they do have the potential to be sooo much more, but they insist on playing to an audience of children and keeping things on the surface. But hey- the costumes and puppets were really cool. So there is that.

This is Ev, right after she signed her letter of intent for Boise State. It has been a lot of back and forth for her trying to decide what school to go to, but I have to say I am excited that she chose Boise. It's a cool school in a cool town with a lot of opportunities for her. She has a friend that just got in as well and they are planning to room together. Good times ahead.

Have a good week!

Last week, Rachel did a big update on the family. You can go look at that if you want.

This week our theme for the winter continued with hide-and-seek for snow. It's not been great. Our local resort finally broke down and bought some snow makers- but even with that, they haven't been able to open the whole mountain yet. And so we loaded up the car and headed north again. Canada.

Panorama resort is one of our favorites. Long runs- great grooming- lots of terrain to explore. It hadn't snowed for a few days so conditions were pretty firm except for on the steepest runs. Those, and the groomers though, were really really good.

Another part of this trip that stands out to me was the early mornings. This is actually finals/midterms for some of our students, and I went with them each morning to Tim Hortons (how very Canadian of us) and got some work and study in before the day started (how very American of us). It was kind of neat in a way- all of us sitting there with laptops and textbooks and coffee and bagels- I don't know what about it made me feel so good, but it was nonetheless very satisfying.

And then we got home and the following week went by in a huge blur. Finals for high-school kids kept the stress level at a noticeable hum. Lots and lots of people at our house on Wednesday (Bunko group), and Saturday (party with friends), and Sunday (football- Go Seahawks!). Study club for me all day Friday and Saturday. Overnight stay in Wallace with Marissa's family and skiing at Silver Mountain the next day. Lots of work-related travel for Rachel and lots of early mornings and home-related work for me. It was one of the busier weeks that we've had, and I'm kind of glad it's over. Things should calm down a little bit now.

Anyway- enjoy the photos and Have a Good Week!

We get a mix of different ski photos this week. Here's Rach and Jack at Panorama. 

Marissa and Wesley are going all-in with the skiing thing. They and their kids are all pretty new to it but they got season passes and took some lessons and now our families can go up together and I think that everyone actually really likes it. This will be a common activity for us.

Also, the adults get some quiet time on the gondola since the kids all ride up together in a separate car

One more at Panorama- Rach enjoying the fast conditions